If you’ve been recently broken up with by your girlfriend, you’re probably feeling awful right now. You’ve lost your appetite, you’ve got insomnia because you’re too bummed from thinking about her, and you can’t focus because you’re constantly trying to figure out how you could have saved the relationship and where it all went downhill. Am I hitting pretty close to the mark here?

The thing is, I get this because I’ve been there myself. I understand where you are coming from, and I understand that all you care about is to find out how to get back with your ex girlfriend. You still love her, and you have to have her back, and its eating away at you. So how can you get started down the path to getting her back?

1. Under no circumstances are you to phone her. You’re most likely not in a reasonable head space to talk to her without saying something dumb due to rampant emotions, and crying like a child or whining for her to come back is not going to help her see you as an ideal life partner. Trust me, I’ve yet to meet a person who wears desperation well. The other positive aspect about this is that she will begin to notice all the ways that you were there for her when you were still dating, and that no one understands her the way that you do.

2. Create the sort of life that she would be willing to be a part of. If you huddle in your house and mope, you’ll look pathetic. At the opposite end of the scale, if you go out and start sleeping with randoms, she’ll think you’re a jerk and be thankful that she’s not dating you. Instead, go out with your buddies, have fun, chat with the girls a bit, and just generally be the kind of guy that girls love. The point is that she should wonder why you’re not spending all of your time crying over her, and come to the realization that she doesn’t want anybody else getting their hands on you before she gets you back.

If you find yourself claiming “I want my ex girlfriend back” after the relationship has ended, then you owe it to yourself and your relationship to give these tips a shot. If you need more advice on how to get your ex girlfriend back, be sure to check out the link in this post.

Tags: crying like a child, fun chat, girlfrien, head space, life partner, sort of life